So today was my a-ha moment concerning A.B.
He has a music page on myspace (http://www.myspace.com/blame21) because he is, what is known as an underground rapper, which means he is not signed to a major label but still recording. He goes under the name Blvme. I’m not even going to insult him despite how I feel for him because he has a catalog of music and has worked with some reputable people in the business. And he’s talented so I have to be honest on that. I’m heart-broken but not petty. He’s actually very good.
Anyway, I sent him a friend request because I had told him that despite everything, I wanted to keep up with his music. Well, I checked today and he denied my request. Wow. I’m still baffled as to why he is so mad at me and won’t speak to me. He won’t even dignify me with a break-up note or text. Nothing. He just won’t acknowledge my existence. I have never met someone like this before who could be so mad over something so small.
This was a man who told me he loved me and wanted to settle down with me. Very crazy. And the thing I said to him that made him so mad? He was supposed to stay with me at the hotel during my LA visit. I flew to LA for his birthday. The morning of his birthday, I see him leaving with his bags. He was going to have breakfast with his son. So I ask him if he’s coming back. And he asks me why am I asking him that? And I tell him because he is taking his bags with him. This is what pissed him off. I said what I said calmly but he kept saying I was pissing him off and causing unnecessary drama. Huh? I’m confused. So I try to smooth things over and apologize. He tells me it’s cool and he’ll see me later.
After that, he walked out and I never saw him again. It’s been over a week. No calls, no texts, nothing. Thank god for my friend Donna and her husband Dirk. After being left stranded in LA by A.B., they came to my rescue and kept me busy for the remainder of my trip. Because of them, the trip turned out fun without A.B.
Anyway, with him denying my friend request, that obviously tells me he doesn’t want anything to do with me.
Time is too precious to waste and I am way too beautiful and fabulous to be chasing some man who doesn’t want me anymore. So I am leaving this alone. I wish him the best of luck but word of advice, if he should ever read this…you messed up a good thing. You lost probably one of the best women you could ever meet. I never asked you for anything and did so much for you. I was there for you when even your own family didn’t help you out in your time of need. Just because you couldn’t get past one comment, you ruined a potentially great relationship. Relationships are not perfect and if you can’t deal with the bad times and just disappear instead of facing the issues, then I don’t need you in my life. You have some growing up to do, A.B. You may be 31 but you’re acting like a child.
With that said, I am staying single for a LONG time by choice. I just can’t be bothered with men at the moment. lol
He kills me on how Petty he is being. For something like that to piss him off and say that’s causing drama…Something ain’t right! You are better off without him! Let him wake up and realize what he lost! I hope he does!