The best advice someone ever gave me concerning finding that Mr Right was the following:
NEVER SETTLE, but also be accepting. Accepting others at their level doesn’t mean lowering your standards, it means loving blatantly. With signs, there are always many. Don’t ignore the signs EVER. They’re very important and are there to keep you and your heart safe.
I have ignored the signs for way too long. And I have been attracted to the wrong men when in reality I was hiding from the right man because he scared the hell out of me. Now it is time for me to stop ignoring the signs and dive in the pool. Thankfully for me, I still have a shot at HIM. He waited all this time. So I’m thinking that yes, it has to be meant to be. I won’t know unless I dive in the pool. Which is what I plan to do. And whatever happens, if I get my heart broken or whatever, I will have no regrets. Because at least, I tried. And that’s all I can do.
Life is too short and as I near 40, I cannot waste any more time being afraid. This has been 6 years in the making. Who knows? It might turn out to be something wonderful.
